Food, Scholarship & Y-Chromosomes

Today I attended a great event organized by Dr. Frederick Douglas Opie, a prominent food scholar I highly respect. Something he implied inspired this recipe which I prepred soon after for a great friend who is a Gìkùyù scholar in his own right. Since goats and sheep are both used as currency and sacrificial animals, I choose to prepare this lamb recipe for him.

The flavor profile , the 5 mounds, the 4 corners of the bowl all add up to 9, which also happens to be the number of the ingredients used. Nine represents the one constant number. What these two men represent to me is that constant power of nurturing responsible culture as a way of cultivating manhood. Put differently, you have to love yourself through the kind of ethics you live by or aspire to. Being loved by others is subservient to love of self. I am quite aware that any oppressed group of people have to ultimately deal with the idea of compromised adulthood. Systemic racism equally undermines healthy relationship with self amongst the oppressed group, but more so especially amongst men. Having partners that enable me to shield me from such pains is a great asset.

This is a wonderful discussion to take place amongst men. Men typically don't verbally express love in words but in deeds. In the world of the Y-chromosomes, actions speak loudest. That doesn't mean that occasionally say that I love this two great men both through words and food. There is no greater love amongst brothers. Such friendship and alliances are more valuable than gold. By the way if you think toxic masculinity is problematic to you, remember that it is problematic to males too and has some roots with a toxic, violent and unjust culture such as ours. Cultivating a culture of wise, healthy and loving men who love themselves as well as other men is a benefit to us all.